Archive for life accomplishments

Mar
24

THE POWER OF THOUGHT

Posted by: Dr. Michael Schuster | Comments (0)

As you think, you travel; and as you love, you attract. You are today where your thoughts take you. You cannot escape the results of your thoughts, but you can endure and learn; can accept and be at peace. You will realize the vision (not the idle wish) of your heart, be it base or beautiful, or a mixture of both, for you will always gravitate toward that which you secretly most love. Into your hands will be placed the exact results of your thoughts; you will receive that which you earn — no more, no less. Whatever your present environment may be, you will fail, remain, or rise with your thoughts, your vision your ideal. You will become as small as your controlling desire; as great as your dominant aspiration.

Law of Attraction

Law of attraction says that all your thoughts, all images in your mind, and all the feelings connected to your thoughts will later manifest as your reality. In other words; everything you have in your life now has been attracted to you through thoughts in your mind.

Understanding And “Consciously” Implementing The Power Of Thought

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Mar
10

REALIZATION OF A DREAM

Posted by: Chris Ellison | Comments (0)

On Tuesday, March 2, 2010, a dream was realized. Dr. Todd D. Southall opened the doors to his new dental practice in Oro Valley, AZ. After 5 years of practice in Gunnison, CO, Dr. Southall and his family relocated to Tucson, Arizona. They wanted to seek warmer surroundings and decided Arizona was the place. Dr. Southall decided to seek the help of the Schuster Center to help him develop the practice of his dreams, so he enrolled in the Management program and rolled up his sleeves and went to work. As his coach, I continued to share the structures and he continued to build them. The results are not the brick and mortar but will be the relationships that he and Linda, his front office coordinator ,will forge together in the years to come.

CONGRATULATIONS!!! – Chris Ellison, Practice Development Coach/Faculty and The Schuster Team

Brenda Penwell, President

25 years with The Schuster Center! Whew! That blew by fast!!!

Congrats go out to our own Brenda Penwell, President and CFO of The Schuster Center. She just celebrated 25 years with the company!

Brenda has worked tirelessly over the years to help create the vision of Dr. Michael Schuster as The Schuster Center endeavors to “spread the word” in helping dentists throughout the country reach their full and limitless practice potential.

Brenda has been instrumental in helping develop our Dental Management Program. She developed our Life Planning program. She teaches and travels, lecturing dentists throughout the country on how to successfully manage a dental practice. She also teaches team development and keeps a sharp eye on our company finances and management. In other words, one busy woman!

Brenda’s office was filled with streamers and balloons when she arrived to work. It was decorated so gorgeously by two of our staff members it looked as if we had hired an event planner to stage it. Pictured is Brenda amidst her blow-up balloon numbers 2 and 5. Everything done is silver – naturally.

The staff greeted her with flowers and cards. Dr. Schuster may have slipped her a new Mercedes but we haven’t seen it yet. Of course, I don’t think Brenda would give up her classic 1980 SL450 – silver naturally. (She plans ahead!)

Only thing that hasn’t gone silver around Brenda is her hair – clever girl! Stay young, stay strong, we need you and love you. Now where is that gold Mercedes for the 50th coming up?

Feb
11

Believe in Miracles!

Posted by: Vicki L. Smith | Comments (0)

Okay, I’m writing a book (of several individual stories). Isn’t everyone? It’s a book for children ages 1 to 99. I consider myself 12 even though chronologically you can add 50 years! Seriously, don’t we all think we’re about 18 even though some of us might be much older? I don’t think the “kid” spirit ever leaves us.

Back to my book: One of the stories in it is the story of a “miracle” of two ocean creatures who are very different yet become friends by dreaming like-minded dreams and helping one another. They each had a dream of leaving the ocean to see the rest of the world. The problem: they didn’t think they could breathe the air; but, as anything can happen in a story, they made it – leaving the ocean behind – for a spectacular adventure – because they believed in miracles.

I also recently watched a movie (chick-flick as you guys call it) called “Leaving Normal” with Meg Tilly and Christine Lahti. It is older, released in 1992. Again, about two very different types of people which somehow manage to bond on a long trip across the USA, ending up in Alaska. Sometimes by fate or accident, miracles do happen and people help one another by just being themselves – mistakes and all.

Miracles happen every day around us, in every way if we just look – in the air we breathe, the beauty on this fantastic planet – our ever changing sky, brilliant sun and twinkling stars – the variation and colors of our plants and flowers, animals and insects. Also in the miracle of birth, the way we love one another and react to each other on this home – our planet.

So why do we just seem to hear only the bad news most of the time? That sensationalism and fascination with crime and corruption are the mainstays of today. Why not choose to ignore the bad and only publish the “good” people do for one other? Why does it appear that we have lost our way?

Many say our moral compass has lost its “N”, “S”, “E” and “W” (Normalcy, Sensitivity, Ethics and Wisdom); that the compass needle only points to the letter “G” for Greed. Have our intrinsic values, morals and ethics been stripped away because we keep wanting more, more, and yet more? Are we now moving so fast due to technological advancements that we don’t have time to stop and think about what is really important in life? Missing the miracles happening in our own lives?

Some of us older folks point fingers at the younger ones at the lack of integrity we see. But it wasn’t too long ago that other older folks pointed fingers at us – the baby boomers – who shed the trappings of government and social mores for sex, drugs and rock’n’roll – so we were told. Well somehow, a heck of a lot of us out there made it through that time. So, I think you younger ones will, too.

Problem is you are destined to make the same mistakes we did. First, we gave it all up. Then we worked ourselves silly to try to get it all back and then some. But who are the ones who are remembered in our history? The one’s who “had a dream” like Martin Luther King. The one’s who helped the poor and lived without anything, like Mother Teresa. And yes, Jesus, who preached peace from within, love of one another, it’s better to give than receive, seek and find spirituality, not materiality.

In a society where FREEDOM is among the biggest blessings we have in our beloved country, how do we not get into the trappings of CAPITALISM that plays a huge part in our economic system? The tone has been set since we were all very young: One can have anything if we work hard enough, believe in it hard enough and sacrifice family, friends and peace of mind to work tirelessly behind the grindstone.

This is true of all of us. What does it mean for you, as a dentist – years of schooling, marriage, children, family, friends and now a practice and patients? All seemed quite the “American dream”. Small practice in the beginning, then more chairs, then a move to a new practice, maybe you bought a building – huge, shiny new office, more patients, more employees, bigger is better right?

Large dollars coming in, large dollars going out, a new home, vacation home, fancy cars, children’s education, boat, CE classes, specialized training, big expensive vacations – dollars getting stretched? Those larger dollars beginning to look like monopoly money? Do you feel like the conduit for receiving money and passing it on for bill payments, with nothing much going into your pocket or a savings plan and no quality time for family and loved ones?

Whoops! You’re on the fast track, or, what we like to call, the “fake” track. You’ve made your bed and you thought you were happy in it. Now, some years have gone by. You’ve missed special children’s events; a soccer or softball game, a play, maybe your child’s first baby steps, maybe even a divorce under your belt. And every day you have to go to work to feed that large monster you’ve created – your “American monster dream”. What on earth are you going to do now? You can’t think about retirement let alone plan for it. You’ve got too much debt, too many responsibilities. You’re not happy because you know you can do better dentistry and help you patients but you don’t have the time to apply what you’ve learned. It’s sitting on the shelf along with your life!

And what about your patients? Well, they lose out completely.

Maybe you hired a consultant or two to help you. They came in, assessed your needs, told you what to do, gave you a big fancy binder full of “how-to’s” and then drove off with their check. Where did you start? Oh, you didn’t – same old, same old?

If all of the above sounds pretty “right on” do you want a really true, honest to God answer on how to fix this mess? Are you willing to work as hard to get out of this mess as you were to get yourself into it? Are you ready to be honest with yourself and look at what really is important in your life? Are you willing to have your feet held to the fire by a coaching department who will do just that?

Are you willing to take back your life and this time enjoy it?

The answer: The Schuster Center.

We are a “business school for dentists”, but not only that. We are people who help people – all different kinds of people from all over the United States. We care and we guarantee your success. We have the numbers to prove it and the years behind us – all 32 of them. We’re a place with good people work for the benefit of others. We’re not working out of our car, using other people’s material – we’ve created our own.

How did I, a graphic artist and sometimes writer, get involved with Dr. Michael Schuster? By fate and accident – about 29 years ago he walked into my business office – two unlikely people who would probably never have crossed paths. Yet here we are, creating a better life for dentists each in our very different way and watching this process work for thousands of dentists who believed in miracles.

Yes, I’ve seen many miracles here. Want to be one?

We are told all of the time that we are the best kept secret out there. We don’t mean to be. We’re a small company who just cares about helping dentists. That’s Dr. Michael Schuster’s vision. He has a story and he wants you to hear it if you’re tired of the rat race and want to DOUBLE YOUR NET PROFIT while simplifying your life. Believe in miracles, be a kid – find your joie de vivre – again!

God Bless,
Happy New Life!
Vicki

P.S. Write me if you want more information about Dr. Michael Schuster and The Schuster Center. Or see our website at www.SchusterCenter.com and make up your own mind. Make sure you go to the testimonial section and listen to what others have said about us. We have to “toot” our own horn a lot of times, but it’s sure nice when others decide to do it for us! (vicki@cfpd.com)

In 1986 I met an orthodontist at a workshop I was doing in Colorado. We went for a walk and he told me this story:

“My practice wasn’t going as good as I had hoped and when a friend of mine came to me with a business proposition I got involved thinking that owning an auto repair franchise would be the key to me getting rich. Two years later repair franchise went bankrupt and my partner skipped town and the bank pinned the $570,000 debt on me.”

So there he was, in 1986, $570,000 in debt plus the debt for his practice and home which totally exceeded $1.4 million. Something happened on his way to ‘getting rich’…he almost ended up in the trash dump.

The rest of the story: He became a student of mine and when I say student, I mean it.  He was diligent, dedicated and determined to do something different, and that was to ‘create wealth’. And ‘creating wealth’ is totally and completely different than ‘getting rich’.

13 years later, my student and friend had a net invested worth of over $4M and no debt.  He took me to a Warren Buffet Conference in Omaha. It was a great experience for me to witness the growth, the personal evolution and development of this fine man.

The impact of becoming a ‘Wealth Creator’ versus just striving to get rich can be dramatic.  And to add to this story, the first question that was asked of Warren Buffet after he opened for questions was the following…

Q: “Mr. Buffet, what’s the difference between getting rich and wealth?”

A: “Wealth is a state of mind.  People that are trying to get rich never have enough.  Most people that are trying to get rich are doing it out of fear. The fear that they will never have enough – and that’s exactly what happens to them. They make if and then they lose it. (read the introduction in The Science of Creating Wealth™) Wealth, true wealth is about abundance.”

Well stated by the wealthiest man in the world.

 —Dr. Michael Schuster

Fear of Success is evidenced in all human behavior.  It is insidious, unconscious and evidences itself in how the vast majority of us SELF-SABOTAGE almost every good thing we attempt to do.  A book that is by my bedside, (to remind me of how procrastination is a form of SELF-SABOTAGE)  The War of Art, is so important that we all have to be reminded every day how our own ‘self talk’ prevents us from accomplishing what is most important to us.

 “It’s to our own self benefit that we become the best human beings we can become.”

Just think of the excuses we dentists can trump up in our minds for:

  • Not working out
  • Not eating the right foods
  • Not taking that drink of alcohol
  • Not smoking that cigarette
  • Not saving money

This is simply amazing. The major reason that so many of us have problems overcoming the Fear of Success is that we don’t believe we deserve SUCCESS.  Ask yourself:

  • Why do we start something good and then don’t finish it?
  • Why do we start a weight loss program and gain the weight again? 
  • Why do we save money and then lose it?
  • Why do so many really high income actors invest their money and lose it?
  • Why do great athletes or star performers have a great run of success and then end up in alcohol or drug rehab?
  • Why do so many politicians, seemingly on top of the world from a power, prestige and character standpoint, end up caught cheating on their wives?
  • Why do so many people do great in business only to end up in failure.  (Read the Introduction to The Science of Creating Wealth™)

Right in front of your eyes you see dentists SABOTAGING themselves in every arena of life.  Why?  The reason WHY is primarily because: “You don’t think you deserve it.”

Fear of Success is in the Unconscious Mind. To conquer the Fear of Success, you must be aware that it exists.

  • To lick it I must be aware of my ‘self-talk’.
  • Background – Family of origin and what was said to you when you were growing up
  • Any past failures are imbedded in our subconscious mind and often block us from creating the success we want in any arena. 
  • We also rate ourselves in various arenas in our lives.  These ratings are mostly unconscious and often limit the perception of our success.
  • In other words, no matter what we accomplish or achieve, it is never enough.  If I don’t think I’m successful, then I’m not.

Fear of Success is just as paralyzing as Fear of Failure.  Many dentists fear SUCCESS because it tests their current limits and makes them vulnerable to new situations.  Even worse, trying something new exposes weaknesses and forces us to deal with our inadequacies. Success at anything always involves changing something, usually the way we think. Often Success involves new responsibilities and new challenges that threaten our safety.

If you think Fear of Success isn’t important, then ask yourself why you continue to procrastinate in:

  • Starting a long overdue program of business improvement for your practice
  • Starting an exercise program of working out an hour every day
  • Initiating a savings and investment program that ensures you won’t lose money
  • Taking a long overdue Sales Course for the dental practice
  • Focusing on how you can be more productive both personally and professionally as a dentist

Fear of Failure and Fear of Success are two of the most dominate unconscious forces in all of our lives. No one is exempt. More important than all little tricks to work on your mind is this single thought…

No matter how successful you or I become at anything, if we don’t believe in our hearts and souls that we deserve it:

1) We’ll never start whatever we need to start.

2) We’ll get half way through it and quit.

3) We’ll achieve SUCCESS and reverse it.

Amazing isn’t it? Just how much in believing We Deserve It! impacts our entire life. Whether we START, or START AND QUIT or START, GET IT and REVERSE our SUCCESS is all dependent on whether we think we DESERVE IT OR NOT!

There are several major fears that activate PROCRASTINATION:

                * Fear of the unknown

                * Fear of rejection or looking foolish

                * Fear of failure

                * Fear of success

Many dentists fear success or making a commitment because it carries added responsibility that can seem too much to handle, such as setting a higher standard, or moving from GOOD to GREAT in any area of your life or business. Every additional commitment takes additional effort and energy and the willingness to take the risks that are associated with it. 

Many do not have adequate SELF IMAGE and the highly positive SELF ESTEEM that is required to take the risk of GROWTH or CHANGE or DEVELOPMENT. High achievers have HIGH SELF IMAGE and HIGH SELF ESTEEM.  Playing it safe is what low achievers and low risk takers do.

Below are some ideas to help you move toward VICTORY OVER CHANGE rather than being a VICTIM OF CHANGE:

1)  Get up early. Set your clock to get up an hour earlier than you normally do and keep the clock at that setting.  Use the time in the following way: 

2) Think about all the things/people/events for which you are GRATEFUL. Focus on every good thing in your life for which you are GRATEFUL.  If you want, you can do this while you walk with heavy hands, or exercise or ‘prayer walk’ or meditate, but keep your focus on GRATEFULNESS.

3)  Use this time to plan your day, your week, the week ahead.  

4)  Think about your ‘happy spot’ or ‘happy place’.  We all have ‘islands of happiness’ –those places that give us those special feelings. We also have people in our lives that bring joy and happiness into our lives…we need to let them know that they are that to us.

5)  Memorize the following that was given to me by a Priest, who was a patient of mine some 20 years ago:

Don’t sweat the small stuff. It’s all small stuff. If you can’t fight or flight…flow!!

6)  Handle each piece of mail, literature, e-mail, fax just once and then get rid of it. Focus on handling these things at the beginning of your day and the end of your day.

7)  Get in the habit of coming up with a solution to every problem rather than simply focusing on the problem.  When people bring problems to you, listen to them compassionately and then ask them to formulate a solution.  Give the problem identifier the responsibility for solving the problem. You can do this with them. 

8) Always finish what you start. Know that Progress is more important than Perfection. If you say you are going to do it, then finish it.  Completion adds an enormous amount to your SELF RESPECT and SELF ESTEEM.  CONCENTRATE your ENERGY and INTENSITY without distraction. Create your FOCUS TIME, or PERFORMANCE TIME…do not be distracted.

9)  Be CONSTRUCTIVELY HELPFUL rather than CRITICAL of every new idea.  Single out someone to praise or recognize rather than shoot them down, and participating in group bitching, grudge collecting or pity parties.

10)  Limit your TV viewing and INTERNET SURFING to educational and enlightening programs. Stay away from FOX and CNN and other networks that make the news rather than report the news.  The internet has become a great way for procrastinators to hide out instead of focusing on GOAL ACHIEVING ACTIVITIES.

11)  Make a list of important PROJECTS that will advance you personally or advance your business.  Taking immediate action reduces stress and tension.  Procrastination always leads to conflicts, complications and eventually crises. Look at GLOBAL WARMING…the DISEASE CARE CRISIS…the ENERGY CRISES and the FINANCIAL CRISIS. You think this happened all at once??

12)  Seek out SUCCESSFUL ROLE MODELS in any area of your life or business in which you want to succeed. Success leaves clues…so does failure.  Learn from others’ successes as well as others’ failures can improve your performance in any area of your life or business that is important. Every successful person I’ve ever observed has used STRATEGIES to CREATE MODELS to live their life by. Observe them and you can copy their MODEL. 

13)  Problems are part of life. In fact, they are the key to life. You either grasp them and do something about them or you stay STUCK.  With the rapid change in society today, you have many problems to solve every day…but are you working towards something or just problem solving?

Problems are opportunities to a real entrepreneur. They are opportunities to find solutions that people value and in which they are willing to pay. You only have the freedom of choice. You don’t have the freedom to choose your results. Results are determined by NATURAL LAWS.

Information is FREE. Knowledge is CHEAP. Wisdom is PRICELESS. 

Wisdom is knowing the OUTCOME before you take action.  Study with wise people and practice the principles and strategies they produce and your life will evolve in positive, life affirming ways. 

Dr. Michael Schuster

Call us about how to integrate proven models and strategies into your dental practice for higher profitability and personal satisfaction,, 1-800-288-9393 or visit www.SchusterCenter.com

 

Aug
13

Dentist, are you grateful?

Posted by: Dr. Michael Schuster | Comments (0)

Wanting what you have…seems like an oxymoron in our current culture where if we can’t afford to HAVE IT we simply finance it.  It’s amazing to see a 7% drop in consumer spending for things we don’t need but WANT.  Then when we get them, we simply WANT MORE.

Timothy Miller wrote a book in 1995 that I’ve read 50 times…HOW TO WANT WHAT YOU HAVE!

I suggest you read it.  Step one to ever being happy with what you have is GRATITUDE. Interesting that in Lee Brower’s new book, The Brower Quadrant, he also focuses on the importance and power of gratitude.

It’s a proven fact that people who are grateful for what they have, perform better and have a much more profound impact on their life and the lives of others.

Two other elements that Timothy Miller writes about are ATTENTION…being actually present to what is going on right now and COMPASSION.  I find that people who really try to understand us become much more involved with life and come much closer than those who feel and show little compassion for others.

But in the end, how can anyone WANT WHAT THEY HAVE, it they DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.  So many dentists have lives that contradict their core values, or go against NATURE’S PRINCIPLES of human behavior. No matter who you are, you’ll never BE HAPPY, CONTENT OR GRATEFUL if you don’t focus on and act on what you TRULY VALUE AND WANT.  

And you’ll also have a very difficult time feeling GRATEFUL if all you do is PROBLEM SOLVE.

We all have problems and we all must face our problems and do something about our problems. But its far better to FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT…the ONE THING THAT CAN AND WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

When I wrote THE SCIENCE OF CREATING WEALTH…I did so because we all have so much more potential…I think one of the major reasons the majority of us fail to even come close to our God given potential is because we ARE NOT GRATEFUL FOR WHAT WE HAVE.

Think on these things.

Dr. Michael Schuster 

–For help with dental practice management, dental case presentation, hygiene as a profit center, business plans for the dental practice, dental continuing education seminars and more, go to www.SchusterCenter.com or call 1-800-288-9393

Jul
07

Dentist, face your fears

Posted by: Dr. Michael Schuster | Comments (0)

The future belongs to the risk takers, not the security seekers. The more you seek security, the less of it you have—and the more you pursue opportunity, the more security you will receive. 

The greatest challenge that you will ever face is the conquest of fear in the development of the habit of courage.  Winston Churchill once wrote: “Courage” is rightly considered the foremost of virtues, for upon it, all others depend.” 

Fear is, and always has been, the greatest enemy of mankind. When Franklin D. Roosevelt said; “The only thing to fear is fear itself,” he was saying that the emotion of fear is the greatest RESISTANCE to pursuing becoming the person you have the God-given potential to become. Fear is the cause of much associated anxiety, stress and unhappiness.  When we develop the habit of courage and work to develop an unshakable self-confidence, a whole new world of possibilities opens to us.  Just think: What would you dare to dream, to be, to do, if you knew you couldn’t fail? 

Fortunately, the habits of courage and self-confidence can be learned, just as any other habits or skills were learned.  To do so, we need to go to work systematically to diminish and eradicate our fears, lower our resistance, while simultaneously building the kind of courage that will enable us to deal fearlessly with the inevitable ups and downs of life. 

Syndicated columnist Ann Landers wrote,  If I  were asked to give what I consider to be the single most useful bit of advice to all of humanity, it would be this:  Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life, and when it comes, as it will as surely as night follows day, hold your head high. Look it squarely in the eye and say, “I will be bigger than you.  You cannot defeat me.”  This is the kind of attitude that leads to victory every time. 

The starting point to overcoming fear and RESISTANCE and developing courage is to look at the factors that predispose us towards fear.

The root source of fear is childhood conditioning that caused us to experience two types of fear. First, the fear of failure, which causes us to think: “I can’t do it.  I can’t change. I can’t risk failing.  The other is fear of rejection, fear of saying what has to be said to move myself or someone else to action which causes us to think, “I have to, I have to, I have to”. 

Based on those fears, we become pre-occupied with the idea of losing our money, our time, and our emotional investment in a relationship.  We become hypersensitive to the opinions and the possible criticisms of others, sometimes to the point where we are blocked, we are afraid to act, even in our best behalf.  Our fears paralyze us. Our fears put the brakes on us becoming the people we truly are. Our fears create RESISTANCE. Our fears discourage us. Our fears force us to procrastinate…to do anything but what we should be doing. 

We make excuses and don’t do what is essential to do to act in our own behalf.

 

  • We don’t exercise every morning.
  • We don’t eat the right foods.
  • We fail to give thanks for what we have.
  • We fail to be grateful.
  • We fail to take quiet time for ourselves. 

Fear and RESISTANCE are also caused by ignorance.  When we have limited knowledge and information, when we surrender our MONEY, our TIME, our INDIVIDUAL POWER to others who are not capable, we tend to become tense, stressed and insecure about the outcome of our actions. We lose ENERGY.  We lose time. Life takes on less meaning. We move into BURNOUT.  We lose our enthusiasm. It becomes tougher to get going, to do what we know we must do to shape our lives and businesses.

The reverse is also true. When we have the courage to act in our own behalf, to gain control of just one thing, say our health, or our money, or what we eat, or when we take important time for ourselves each morning, we eliminate fear, we take a stand, we improve a part of our lives which impacts other aspects of our lives. 

We begin to overcome RESISTANCE, overcome our FEARS and every moment of every day we take back what we might have given up. Our fears never truly go away. In my view, fear is Satan at work. Anything good for you will be resisted by a fear. It has always been that way and it always will be that way. 

Those who become all of who and what they truly can be, have overcome fear to move to the next level in their life, in their relationships, with their health, and with their finances.   

Dr. Michael Schuster

–For help with dental practice management, dental case presentation, hygiene as a profit center, business plans for the dental practice, dental continuing education seminars and more, go to www.SchusterCenter.com or call 1-800-288-9393

A power point presentation called “The Dash” has been circulating on the internet. You may have come across it recently. I had heard the term before from a friend who was giving a eulogy and referred to the dates of birth and death with life being “the dash” in the middle.

How quickly that brings reflection about my purpose here. How quickly life can pass us by, and how quickly we get lost in society. Most of the time, it is when we are faced with a crisis or life altering experience that we think about these things. Even then, it is often only for a short time and we resume living out our life as it happens. Unless you are willing to give some time to the purpose and plan for your life, it will continue to pass you by.

Our society is full of cookie-cutter houses with cookie-cutter people living in a sea of conformity. Yet we hunger for personal expression and to live a life of purpose. This hungering gets lost in the ho-hum rhythm of our days.

According to an article I read recently in the az-net news, whether we live simple or complex lives, they are made up of three primary components: work, personal, and social. Each of these components must get an equal share of our time in order to maintain balance. When we expend more time and energy in any one area, we have less time and energy for the other two. This leads to imbalance. For example, if work becomes our primary focus, we may be lacking in personal or social time. Only when the whole equalizes can we experience peace.

Work tends to get most of our attention and we readily recall and give attributes based on a person’s vocation in life. We tend to remember people based on their accomplishments in their lifework. We are fascinated with stories of impossible odds that were overcome or creative approaches the person took to get to where they are. It is the architecture of the human spirit that moved them from one room of life to another that peaks our interest.

We are social creatures and tend to identify with others based on their relationships with friends, family, and colleagues. This is where we find commonality and place ourselves in concert with another based on our similar experiences. It is through our social abilities that we strive to fit into society.

Carving out time for personal or spiritual growth is paramount to the expectation of a balanced life. This tends to be the one area we set aside or give up in order to focus on the other two, not realizing the impact it has on our personal achievements. Think of this as creating a sturdy foundation to the building of your life.

If you were created as a building, what sort of structure would you be? Would you blend in with other buildings around you? Would you stand tall or would you be spread out over a large piece of land? How do you personally fit into the culture around you? If you think about it, we build our lives just like a building, one brick or one piece of lumber at a time. The question is, do you have a plan, or a blueprint that incorporates these three primary areas? Are you following your blueprint and striving for balance? Are the rooms in your house / life connected? You are the architect of your life. I challenge you to fill your rooms and hallways with friendships and love.

“Have regular hours for work and play; make each day both useful and pleasant, and prove that you understand the worth of time by employing it well. Then youth will be delightful, old age will bring few regrets, and life will become a beautiful success.” — Louisa May Alcott

“Truest SUCCESS is but the development of self.” — Charles Atlas

The Schuster Center is a business school for dentists where development of the dental practice aligns with the development of self. It is a lifelong network of like-minded professionals in community and spirit.